Proverbs 11 continues the contrast between righteousness and sin.  God is the promoter of righteousness, while Satan is the promoter and architect of sin and disobedience.

This morning I want to focus upon Proverbs 11:12-13.  

vs. 12 - "He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbor: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace."  As you know, a neighbor can be a mighty asset, but only if you are careful to respect him.  To despise your neighbor is to disrespect your neighbor.  Are you going to be a bridge of help and harmony in your neighborhood or a source of contention and malice?  Those who live their lives despising others with contempt in their heart are void of wisdom.  The word translated wisdom is a common Hebrew word for "heart".  Most people live their lives without regard for others, but they have an inordinate amount of focus upon themselves.  The text certainly implies that this fool is mouthy.  By contrast, a man of understanding holds his peace.  

vs. 13 - "A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter."  In a similar manner, a talebearer is a gossip who chooses not to keep his (or her) mouth shut.  It takes discipline to know when to speak and when to remain silent.  People who value relationships will guard the relationship by keeping their mouths closed.  Fools tell it all, while the wise are discreet.  Be careful what you say, and to whom you say it.  You will be glad you practiced such discipline.  A stern warning is found in Proverbs 17:9, "He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends."  

I want to be surrounded by a strong, loving, trusting community.  Therefore, it is important you treat your neighbor with respect, and you learn to discipline your mouth.

Have a great day as you meditate on these two great verses.

Your Friend and HIS,

Pastor Abbott

MEDITATIONS

1.  Are you working at reaching out to develop relationships with your neighbors?  What can you do to advance these relationships?

2.  Have you ever involved yourself in gossip?  What prompted your actions?

3.  What does gossip do to others?  How does it cheapen relationships?

4.  Why is our mouth so hard to control?