PRIDE: THE SOLE SOURCE OF CONTENTION
Read Proverbs 13:1-12
Proverbs 13 continues the contrast between the wisdom of righteousness and that of the foolishness of sinful living. There are so many powerful truths presented in the first twelve verses that it is difficult to choose only one wise thought, but I would like to share some thoughts from Proverbs 13:10, "Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom."
It is without a doubt that human conflict most often has pride at its roots. There is no doubt that pride is at the root of our disobedience. And there is no doubt that pride is the sin that most reflects the heart and attitude of Satan (read Isaiah 14:12-14 to learn). The Bible has nothing good to say about the sin of pride. Yet, it is a fundamental part of the fallen nature of humanity and one which we must guard against.
Pride has destroyed marriages. Husbands and wives dig in their heals and are no longer able to communicate because of their own pride blinding them to the needs of their spouse. Churches are divided because of the prideful characteristics of the people who are members. Pride divides. Pride elevates self. Pride makes us flawed and unable to see things that are truly important.
The Bible warns us about pride in many places. Let me share just a few.
Psalm 10:4, "The wicked, through the pride of his countenance, will not seek after God: God is not in all his thoughts."
Proverbs 11:2, "When pride cometh, then cometh shame: but with the lowly is wisdom."
Finally, notice Proverbs 16:18, "Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall."
The later portion of verse 13 states, "...but with the well advised is wisdom." The Hebrew word translated "well advised" has the sense of talking through a matter or consulting together. Without a doubt, pride produces conflict, whereas, one who is willing to talk over a problem is wise.
Which course will you take today? Will you dig in your heals because of pride, or will you talk through a matter to avoid conflict and promote harmony in your relationships?
Your Friend and HIS,
Pastor Abbott
MEDITATIONS
1. Does your life reflect pride or humility? Explain.
2. What does the Bible say about God and pride in James 4:6 and 1 Peter 5:5?
3. Why do you think there is such a disconnect from God in the life of one who is proud?
4. What is the ultimate result of pride according to Proverbs 16:18?